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Keep the photos that know what happened.

Friends raising glasses around a dinner table

The perfect photo is not always a good witness. Sometimes the blurry one in the back seat understands the entire summer.

Favorites are not a personality

An automatic favorites album will give you clean portraits, sunsets, and the birthday cake. Useful. It will probably miss the doorway, the bus window, the table before everyone arrived, and the photo of nothing that instantly places you back in the room.

Pick an era you can name without using a calendar range. “The coastal weekend.” “Senior spring.” “The old apartment.” “That summer.” A world with a name is already halfway to a story.

The blurry one might be doing important work

Sharp is a technical quality. Important is an editorial one. Keep enough people, place, action, detail, and transition for the era to breathe at more than one volume.

A wide street gives geography. A face gives intimacy. Hands on a table give texture. The walk between two events gives time. Twelve perfect portraits give LinkedIn.

  • Where were you?
  • Who kept appearing?
  • What actually happened?
  • Which object, place, color, or gesture kept returning?
  • What did leaving look like?
White shoes resting on a green chair
The little details

Repetition is a clue

Delete the six frames competing to be the same photo. Keep the repeated diner, jacket, mirror, route, snack, seat, or hand gesture showing up on different days.

A duplicate wastes space. A motif creates identity. The difference is whether the repetition tells you something changed, continued, or became a bit.

Give the story a door and an exit

A beginning lets us enter the world. It can be an arrival, a room before it filled up, a first look, or the ordinary frame just before everything became this era.

An ending does not need fireworks. Packed bags, an empty table, the final walk, a closing door, or somebody asleep on the way home will usually do more.

Some photos were never asking to be content

Lose the passwords, tickets with codes, receipts, medical information, exact addresses, private conversations, and images that would make someone defend themselves. Crop cannot turn every private photo into a public one.

Memento is built to be generous. Your edit should be too. The goal is “you remembered us perfectly,” not “why would you post that?”